27 outubro, 2005

"o que me sair"




Há uma menina muito querida que está a dar os "primeiros" passos no seu blog e tem andado desanimada... não com o blog, mas com alguns 'problemas' que irá certamente ultrapassar em breve. Entretanto, precisa de mimo. Muito :)

9 comentários:

juliana pinto da costa disse...

deixaste-me sem palavras...
maaas também gosto MUITO de ti :)
e não gosto de te ver triste!!

Anónimo disse...

"A friend hears the song in my heart and sings it to me when my memory fails." - Unknown

Beijos grandes para as duas, cósmicos claro, ana

juliana pinto da costa disse...

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juliana pinto da costa disse...

z, olha que esta menina é um anjo!! ;)

Anónimo disse...

sim, e tenho os resultados do questionário para o provar...hehe ;-)

bigada, Ji, és um doce, i'm just a girl!

bacci cosmicci, ana

Anónimo disse...

Vocês as 2 lembraram-me aquele texto que passei por mail há tempos...beijos grandes, ana

A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day, drinking iced tea and
visiting with her Mother. As they talked about life, about marriage,
about the responsibilities of life and the obligations of adulthood,
the mother clinked the ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned
a clear, sober glance upon her daughter. "Don't forget your
girlfriends," she advised, swirling the tea leaves to the bottom of
her glass. "They'll be more important as you get older. No matter how
much you love your husband, no matter how much you love the children
you'll have, you are still going to need girlfriends. Remember to go
places with them now and then; do things with them. And remember that
"girlfriends" are not only your friends, but your sisters, your
daughters, and other relatives too. You'll need other women. Women
always do."

'What a funny piece of advice,' the young woman thought. 'Haven't I
just gotten married? Haven't I just joined the couple-world? I'm now
a married woman, for goodness sake! -- a grownup. Surely my husband
and the family we'll start will be all I need to make my life
worthwhile!'

But she listened to her Mother; she kept contact with her girlfriends
and made more each year. As the years tumbled by, one after another,
she gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew what she
was upon a woman, girlfriends are the mainstays of her life. After
almost 50 years of living in this world, here is what I've learned:

Times passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Love waxes and wanes.
Hearts break.
Careers end.
Jobs come and go.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Men don't call when they say they will.
BUT girlfriends are there, no matter how much time and how many miles
are between you. When you have to walk that lonesome valley, and you
have to walk it for yourself, your girlfriends will be on the
valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you,
intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the
valley's end. Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk
beside you. Or come in and carry you out. My mother, sister,
sister-in-law, "sisters," extended family, and friends bless my life!
The world wouldn't be the same without them, and neither would I.
When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the
incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead. Nor did we know how much
we would need each other. Every day, we need each other still.

Pass this on to the women who help make your life work......I just
did.

juliana pinto da costa disse...

oh Ana, "you're not JUST a girl!" és muiiito especial :)

juliana pinto da costa disse...

:)

Anónimo disse...

Ai, que não queria pôr ninguém a chorar *passa os kleenexs*, foi só apenas um xi-coração

beijos para as duas meninas!

ana